We have asked gay guys, straight guys, married guys and girls and here is part and parcel of what they have said.
The main thing we kept hearing is NO TEETH and LUBRICATION. Now, okay you say, ” I know that! What else?!”
My thoughts exactly.
Here’s where we get to the nitty gritty.
Guys are visual creatures, they want to see that you want him. They need to see you getting turned on by his penis. They want to think that you want to be there. They want to think that you want to see him cum. So girls, this is rule number one.
Think variety: Savour a great Blow Job so it lasts a while. Get creative with your movements, your tongue, hands, lips etc. Get a small massager (not penis-shaped!!) and use that on him for a while as well as your mouth. Switch things up and watch his body language for what you know he really likes so that you can finish him up with that technique in a bit.
Time management: You don’t have to be there for 2 hours. 10 solid minutes will feel like forever if done right and it will take him a good 5 minutes for his eyes to uncross after he ejaculates. Now – you can also, go slow and easy and make it last for hours, thats entirely up to you.
So it should be enthusiastic, rhythmic, and get you turned on.
STEP BY STEP:
Gently breath warm air all over his penis, gently kiss it and stroke it with your lips. Take the very tip, the head, into your mouth (this is the most sensitive part of his penis) get his head good and wet with your tongue and suck. Listen to his moans of pleasure and react as he does, then slowly put the whole thing in your mouth. After you get everything lubricated well and a good rythm of his penis going in and out take it out and quickly and switch to hand if your mouth needs a break. Once you feel his penis getting dry it’s time to continue blowing. While you’re stroking his penis in your mouth do some strokes shorter and longer than each other. Keep it random and exciting. Then if you’re feeling risky, ever so gently introduce your teeth at the base for one or two strokes at a time. Too many strokes with your teeth may cause irritation even though he’ll be moaning. Then as you feel his penis flex and as he’s reaching an orgasm it’s your choice to swallow, spit or finish off with a hand job. Don’t forget while you’re giving a BJ to cup his balls and feel his body.
For the “Thank you BJ” Don’t be afraid to plan a little bit. Get the towel, the flavored oils, the ice/hot tea ready and staged.
A bed is great.. but gets BORING ladies.. be adventerous, dare to get caught, dare to not care once in a while, your man will LOVE this.